I Hate Women (at the moment)

[Johno]

First sorry to Greg for going on about women problems on his thread congratulations on your engament dude.

I just dont know what i do wrong to in relation ships and av got to get this one off my chest.

I meet a girl 3 mounths ago and thought she was well hot, so tuke her on a few dates and we hit it it off, at first I was a bit cold and distance because av been hert in the past and because she had a litle 2 year old boy, after a mounth off seeing her alot every thing fell into place and she made me happy and her son was great 2. I tuck them out to places (ball word) etc and treated her realy nice and made loads of efort with the kid

So i thought the big test!!! i'll take them away for a long weekend in my van. Bit nervouse coz I didnt now what she would think but she and the little one loved it we had camp fires BBq and when I was surfing she was playing on the beach with her son. it was great specialy coz i normally go surfing on my own and I had such a nice time with her there.

Any way b4 i meet her like a year ago i booked to go Australia for 4 weeks over Xmas, and all summer i spent 6 mounths doing up an old van into a camper van (which i am really proud off coz i did it all myself and spent a lot of time on it)

So any way I had 2 weeks holiday to take b4 I went Oz and planed to do the south coast and south west coast in my van. sods law the only time I could get of was the last 2 weeks in Nov (2 weeks off back 4 1 1/2 week oz here i come).

So i told her what may plans were and said i wont go traveling in my van for 2 weeks i'll come back early and spend some time with you.

The hole week b4 i went she was being dead cold to me like not wanting to see me or spend time with me. So on the last nite we had together b4 i went away I asked her what was up and she kicked off at me so I left hers and went home.

Next day got up and went on me travels didnt her any thing off her for 7 days then when i got to Newquy I texed her and she replyed 'sorry my hearts not in it'.

What did i do! should i have not gone on my trip!!! I asked her to come with me but she said it was to cold for the litle one.

After 3 more days could take no more of being on my own so set of home, got home she wouldnt answer my texs and now my head is really twated.

I did something i felt i had to do (me surf trip) but lost my relation ship coz of it (i think)

now my head is realy twated!!

well its time to go home sorry all for going on but i feel better already for geting this of me chest.

Out tonight for beer beer beer and hopfuly a big bird. surfing sunday if i can get out of bed

women just dont understand what its like to surf unless they have tried it

C u all monday morning

[CheeZee]

aww man .. sorry to hear all that bro ..for real

Sounds like maybe her sons father (her ex' ) may have left her with abondonment issues (which are heavier and deeper when a child is involved)..and unfortunately for you my man .. they 've come to the surface over your trip away. It may be that she really isnt in it for the long term as you may have been ..but bro .. if you really like this lady, then give her a bit of space but keep in touch .. im a firm believer in " what is meant to be is meant to be" ..so keep the faith (for now) bro

I hope it all turns around for you man

Keep your chin up

[flyingvee]

Sorry to hear all that man. I agree with CheeZee - 'wot will be will be' - hang on in there and see if you get a chance to talk with her.
Good luck

[PapaW]

Have you tried calling rather than a text?

[CheeZee]

Have you tried calling rather than a text?

..good shout there papa .. never try and sort out anything heavy through text's my man... relationship issues always warrant a call my man.

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[PapaW]

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[Real Pol]

Aaaagh!

That's sh!t.

I don't think she acted like she did cos of surfing, as the boys said above it must have been due to other issues.
Never sort problems out by texts. Bloomin eck! The amount of relationships I've ruined by trying to be funny over a text and it's been taken the wrong way!!!

Chin up dude!

[long_man]

sorry to hear the bad news dude, I agree with all the ^^^^ posts, definitely try and talk about it either face to face or on the phone, not in texts....

have you tried going round there

...and remember (even when the going gets tough).......keep smiling