so...... my girlfriend cheated on me

by **PapaW** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 4:34 pm

yeah sod it man shes in the wrong here she can get it herself.

by **paulS** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 4:39 pm

Burn the lot dude...
Dont dwell and look forward...

by **PapaW** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:32 pm

If you don't mind me asing how long had you been together?

by **surferdude_scarborough** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:34 pm

just comin up to 6 months. was just starting to think longterm

by **PapaW** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:44 pm

Not meanign to be blunt but thats nothing abnd your only 17!... man move right on without a second thought....

Have a summer of fun do what YOU want to do!

by **surferdude_scarborough** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:50 pm

PapaW wrote:your only 17

ahem. 18

yeah i see wt ur sayin

by **ginat** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 5:59 pm

surferdude_scarborough wrote:yeah but the crock of her stuff at my house wont take itself back.

No reason you can't post it back to her or drop it off one day when she isn't around if it is too big/$$ to post. Heck, doesn't sound like you hate her so maybe you could even take it to her in person and wish her well on her path. I was never able to do that when I dated but always admired those that could do that. Probably pretty healthy thing to do.

by **oldiebeginner** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 6:26 pm

Remember my friend "every holes a goal" at your age...

:wink:

by **surferdude_scarborough** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 6:26 pm

ginat wrote:Heck, doesn't sound like you hate her so maybe you could even take it to her in person and wish her well on her path.

yeah thats the plan

by **PapaW** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 7:30 pm

Sorry 18! bless all of age now heheh :roll:

Atleast its not a nasty breakup.. jsut a bit of bitterness?!

by **surferdude_scarborough** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 8:37 pm

hmm wasnt a horrible breakup but a painful one. *edit: perhaps the whole internet doesnt need to know that last bit *

by **essex sucks** » Mon Jun 11, 2007 8:54 pm

yeah but what did she expert she must of no that u would break up with her when she cheated u in the first place so she has no one else to blame but her self. well thats what i think anyway

by **gdude335** » Tue Jun 12, 2007 12:55 am

man sell her stuff
in a garagesale

she shoulda dumped you before she cheated

by **RJD** » Tue Jun 12, 2007 3:59 am

@ 18 man your just getting in your stride, dont worry about it all, go out & be a tart - its all about confidence and drugs

by **Hang11** » Tue Jun 12, 2007 5:30 am

If she's feeling guilty and on the back foot, you might as well milk it for all it's worth and try to get some real sordid sex out of it, before you dump her.

In 5 years time, you'll be able to look back and smile.

by **Ellie** » Tue Jun 12, 2007 12:03 pm

That really sucks man

Hope you work out what you're gonna do, and then feel better. Hugs x

by Lisa* » Tue Jun 12, 2007 1:39 pm

Hey Dude!

1st thing - all girls aren't like that so don't go gay [ i think that was the first reply you got]

2nd thing - summers coming up [or here] and i no guys love the beach for the girls [as well as surfing] and guess what, the girls love the beach for the guys too [as well as surfing] so get out there and have some fun.

3rd thing - unfortunately some people can be like that, everyone seems to have forgotten what love is and how much it means. Some people feel they can mess around with other peoples feelings - no one has that right though so don't let her get to you.

finally - theres always someone worse off in world even though it may seem like the worst thing that could ever happen right now but it shouldn't be long before you're thinking why did i get so upset?

I hope things get better for you
Make sure you keep smiling =)
xxxxxx

by **chris fixxy** » Tue Jun 12, 2007 1:40 pm

Don't go back.

Seriously.

by **Dr Rev** » Tue Jun 12, 2007 1:42 pm

Time is a great healer, get p*ssed, get a hangover and then get on with enjoying yourself !

by **Jimi** » Tue Jun 12, 2007 2:18 pm

yeh, time (and booze) heals many wounds...

just don't wake up naked in a park in a different city.

so...... my girlfriend cheated on me

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