so...... my girlfriend cheated on me

[Sillysausage]

nah don't worry about it, girls are crap, become gay! Nah seriously though it happens, and there's nothing you can do about it to make you happier, unless you give the kid a kick in, might settle it

[Hang11]

See if you can get a threesome going with her best mate before you chuck her. If you don't ask, you don't get, and in that sort of situation, it's sh1t or bust anyway

[surferdude_scarborough]

so i went to meet my girlfriend kate in town when she finished work. i havent seen her for a while and such. when she comes out shes a bit funny with me. we had a pretty deep convo for a bit about the future n stuff then she told me she'd cheated on me.

i dunno what to do. i really like(d) her but i dont think id be able to trust her again.


so how was everyone elses day?

[PapaW]

Well that just xxxxx on mine....!

I know the exact situation your in. and I decided to move on.. was the right choice for me and way better off for it.

[thaya]

that's awful, so sorry to hear about it

chin up, I know you'll be really sad and upset but you're still young, and when you find the right girl she wont be the sort to cheat on you...

think happy thoughts... not long till the summer meet.

[Laguna]

That sucks.. Ive had that happen to me before and its the worst feeling you can get. But you'll be alright in a few days. You're still young so there will be plenty more to come.

"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why it’s called the present."

[MrJoe]

Sorry to hear about it bro; if you ask me id say drop her.

If she's done it once then theres a chance she'll do it again; not to mention you'll always be wondering about it in the back of your mind.

Don't get down about it, this xxxxx happens in life to all of us; theres plenty more sexy women out there to be had!

Tip: Sleep with her best mate just to piss her off

How long you been with her?

[surferdude_scarborough]

its nt too long just coming up for 6 months but i really thought id found someone special this time.

Tip: Sleep with her best mate just to piss her off

u havent seen her best mate though

[MrJoe]

its nt too long just coming up for 6 months but i really thought id found someone special this time.

Tip: Sleep with her best mate just to piss her off

u havent seen her best mate though

lol alright, scratch that...

Dont worry about it buddy, i dont mean to sound like a kill joy, but it's probably not going to be the last time this'll happen to you! It sucks, but it's just one of those things.

You gotta pay taxes, you get cheated on a few times, you die, theres no surf, you get old, theres still no surf; lives full of sh*t lol just gotta say fleshin' to it and keep on going

[Johno]

Snakes with tits !!!!

[northswell]

Move on, put it down to experience.

[essex sucks]

yep move on man there will be someone esle. don't worry about i have been mad and got strong feelings for a girl that does not like me

[drowningbitbybit]

Abort, abandon, leave.

[xswind]

"shxt happens", "move on" is all way to easy for us to say but for you it is a real bummer and I feel for you fella.
It is never nice to be shafted by someone close to you sort of like a “knife in the back”.

She is not worth it in my opinion but there again I do not know her.
One thing for sure if you go back you will forever not trust her again and that causes trouble and is not a good start to any relationship.
Relationships are built on trust and without trust it is just s*x and s*x is not everything.

On a lighter note you could try the following...

1) Stop worrying there are many more girls out there, or learn how to shape surfboards, that way you will never have the time to go out anyway or worry about not having a girl friend.

2) STOP watching "Snooker", that is enough to kill any relationship dead, unless you are in your 80's.

[Jimi]

that sucks... there's not much I can say to make it suck any less, but at least she told you, and you didn't find out off someone else... I tell you that sucks more.

Also, at least it happened a long time before Xmas, so you don't have any useless pre-bought xmas present to dispose of.

I tell you that sucks too...

[ginat]

Yep, imho, walking away is probably the best thing to do. Sounds like she has issues with fidelity and at least you found that out now. Maybe she'll turn out to be a trustworthy person later in life but you know that she isn't right now so move on and find someone who is. You deserve it!

[surferdude_scarborough]

i think you guys are probly right. gna go talk to her soon.

[drowningbitbybit]

gna go talk to her soon.

I think texting is acceptable in the circumstances. Ur dmpd.

[surferdude_scarborough]

yeah but the crock of her stuff at my house wont take itself back.

[drowningbitbybit]

Bonfire?