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Postby thaya » Wed Jan 17, 2007 12:38 pm

:D

I'm gonna have a chat with him face to face on friday. I'm not sure whether to dump him though... that seems a bit harsh (and it's nice not being single for once!). I knew it was all too good to be true :evil: :D

oh well, we'll see how things go...
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Postby sal » Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:10 pm

Definitely have a chat before you make up your mind!

I've finally come to the conclusion that Nice Guys (eg the ones we never seem to want :roll: ) are totally underrated! Bring on the Nice Guys! :D
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Postby libby » Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:14 pm

I was just thinking that!!!!! I might have to give nice guys a chance from now on, why are we programmed to not fall for the nice guys whyyyyy?!
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Postby essex sucks » Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:28 pm

because u want too make all us nice guys! lonely for the rest of our lives

*laughs too his self*
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Postby dougirwin13 » Wed Jan 17, 2007 9:44 pm

Dec wrote:I would exchange matter first. That usually mellows guys out.

(We're talking about kissing of course Doug! :wink: )


Not sure why anyone would think otherwise! ;)

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Postby Stone Fox » Wed Jan 17, 2007 10:28 pm

I'd have to agree that women tend to go for the bad boys, at least until they grow up a bit. (no offence meant)

Thaya, It's none of my business but if he's getting clingy and stroppy after a week what do you think the future holds? Is he intelligent.

I spent 4 and a half years with my ex fiance who was thick as a post simply because she was stunning, and amazing in bed. Couldn't have a decent conversation with her though and I've resolved to stay single until I find someone I can genuinely *connect* with! (NO JOKES) if that makes any sense.

If you can train him to be a bit more understanding, then good luck to you, sounds like you're smitten with his looks and that's a good start. I really hope for you're on the same frequency so to speak. True happiness is rare it'd be really good to see you find it.
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Postby thaya » Thu Jan 18, 2007 8:01 am

none taken!

the reason i like him (aside from his looks :D ) is because he's intelligent and we can have great philosophical conversations... we're on the same wavelength and we have LOADS in common too.

I never usually go out with 'nice looking' blokes (in a conventional way!). I'm just a bit concerned about his clingy behaviour. maybe this is why he was still single when I met him???? I don't know. I'm gonna give him a chance though...
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Postby pault » Mon Jan 22, 2007 10:23 am

Hey Thaya even though you had a horrid surf session, did the 'Chat' go alright with your diet coke man?

Hope your shoulder isn't too wrecked!
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Postby thaya » Mon Jan 22, 2007 10:28 am

just to add to things... we've split up (or rather I dumped him - for a few reasons really). on the positive side I've already managed to meet another nice bloke and went on a date with him! Seeing him again this weekend.
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Postby pault » Mon Jan 22, 2007 10:31 am

thaya wrote:on the positive side I've already managed to meet another nice bloke and went on a date with him! Seeing him again this weekend.


:woot: :thumbs:
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Postby Dr Rev » Mon Jan 22, 2007 10:35 am

Hope this one turns out better for ya ! :wink:
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Postby sal » Mon Jan 22, 2007 11:00 am

thaya wrote:on the positive side I've already managed to meet another nice bloke and went on a date with him! Seeing him again this weekend.


Yay Thaya! :D

I had a 'sort-of' date yesterday, arranged to go for a walk with a cute and very nice guy who works in the deli over the road, we ended up spending the whole day together and he came over to watch a film last night, and we sat up talking til midnight! He's REALLY nice and I'm still grinning like an idiot, my boss's wife even asked me if I was ok this morning!!! :lol: :lol:
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Postby thaya » Mon Jan 22, 2007 12:04 pm

sal wrote: I had a 'sort-of' date yesterday, arranged to go for a walk with a cute and very nice guy who works in the deli over the road, we ended up spending the whole day together and he came over to watch a film last night, and we sat up talking til midnight! He's REALLY nice and I'm still grinning like an idiot, my boss's wife even asked me if I was ok this morning!!! :lol: :lol:


:thumbs: :woot: go for it sal!!! I know that 'grinning like an idiot' feeling very well :lol:
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Postby Lisa* » Mon Jan 22, 2007 12:32 pm

Libby wrote:I was just thinking that!!!!! I might have to give nice guys a chance from now on, why are we programmed to not fall for the nice guys whyyyyy?!

#i've always thought that the nice men are ugly, the fit men are mean, and the nice and handsome men are gay lol

but oh well :)
Sorry to hear you split up but glad you found someone... you make it sound easy.

I can never get passed the friend stage... i worked out that i never like anyone that i've never been friends with but then when i'm friends with them i can't pluck up the guts to tell them because i no i risk losing the friendship. :( love sux
actually while i'm here... any tips on how to deal with that?!

xx
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Postby sal » Mon Jan 22, 2007 12:59 pm

Lisa1 wrote:[#i've always thought that the nice men are ugly, the fit men are mean, and the nice and handsome men are gay lol


Wow, I wish I'd had that sussed at 16, good for you Lisa! :D

Lisa1 wrote:actually while i'm here... any tips on how to deal with that?!


Ummm.... :? Sorry, nope! :lol:
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Postby thaya » Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:17 pm

Lisa1 wrote: Sorry to hear you split up but glad you found someone... you make it sound easy.


errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr... well, no it's not... it's probably just a lucky phase I'm going through. no men for a few months and then several at once.. a bit random (and no I don't mean exactly at the same time!) I don't feel too upset about the 'diet coke' man so that probably means he wasn't right for me.

I think this relationship with James might have some sort of future. I know it's very early days and I thought exactly the same with Sam back in May... but this guy is really different. He's totally genuine and honest and I really respect him (not that I didn't with the others - oh it's hard to explain). I'm looking forward to seeing him on Friday - he's cooking me a meal and getting a nice bottle of wine! I've got him well-trained already!!! :lol:
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Postby sal » Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:29 pm

thaya wrote: I'm looking forward to seeing him on Friday - he's cooking me a meal and getting a nice bottle of wine! I've got him well-trained already!!! :lol:


Oooh Thea, sounds good!

Stuart's been in to see me at work this afternoon, we're going out for a drink tonight!

I mustn't get pissed, I mustn't get pissed, I mustn't get pissed, I mustn't get pissed, I mustn't get pissed, I mustn't get pissed, I mustn't get pissed :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby thaya » Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:39 pm

oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Sal!

sounds good. best of luck! (not that you need it!)

exciting stuff! let us all know how it goes!
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Postby sal » Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:41 pm

Thanks!!! :D
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Postby dougirwin13 » Mon Jan 22, 2007 8:56 pm

Warning! Warning!

DNA exchange imminent!

:D <J>

Sounds promising - best of luck Thaya.

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