Lachlandudley33 wrote:But I'm more interested in learning to read surf forecasts and being able to determine whether it will be ok fo rme or not

I'll allow the truly experienced guys to comment but here's my take. Some of it you seem to already have a handle on, hopefully some of it will be helpful:
- As a total beginner, you want a reasonably mellow beach break, waves breaking over sand. Not a place where the waves tend to jack up fast or get hollow. Not waves breaking over a reef or rocks if possible.
- When you look at the surf forecast/report for an area, you ideally want the wind to be more or less offshore (blowing off of the land, not the water). That means a wind direction opposite the way your break faces the sea. For instance my local break is a SE facer, which makes a NW wind ideal for it. It makes for clean, more predictable surf and longer face time.
- You don't want it too big. Under 4' is probably best if you're just starting. It will make it easier to get outside and the wipeouts will be less painful. But don't automatically be put off if it's a little bigger than what you normally like. As I'm sure you've already found out, a dumping 1.5 footer can be a much trickier wave to catch and surf than a clean, mellow 3 footer.
- If you're looking at reports, note the nearest buoy reading, and then compare to what it's actually doing when you get to the beach for future reference. Swell reading at the buoy can produce very different wave heights and shapes at different breaks along the shore.
- Maximize your chances for good surf by timing your trip to the beach with the ideal tide conditions. Some of the online surf report sites describe the ideal tide for a particular break (e.g mid-tide, incoming), or you can just ask the locals, or make your own observations. It sucks to get to the beach when there's decent swell, only to find it pounding on the shore because you got there at high tide and that location only works after low tide. Some places are very tide-dependent, others less so.
- Don't put all your faith in the surf report. Sometimes they "generalize" for a particular area, even though a particular break in that area may be behaving quite differently. Learn to balance the surf report against what you know about your favorite break. Sometimes your spot will be producing decent, surfable waves while everything around it is crap (and sometimes the reverse...)