Hey surfing22 are you also surfer22,
one of probably both of you are in the same boat, you are very beginners and that is absolutely OK
Let's cover a bit of ground here; Pop ups yes focus on down the line and don't worry about the tail pad it is not necessary to stand on it in your pop up, in fact if you do you will probably be too far back on your board and you will bog down. practice practice and surf surf surf is the real way to get pop ups working.
Nothing in the posts of surfing22 or surfer22 makes me think you are doing anything too powerfully you need to get a good paddling speed and watch the forming of the wave and match and exceed the speed of that.
Learn to get your feet a little further apart,practice this on every pop up.
Just go simple in your approach to surfing at this stage, when you do get to turning work on little adjusting turns to ride the wave face and work on getting speed down the line.
Your pop up and first turn lay the foundation for the rest of your surfing, give yourself the time to practice these and everything else will unfold
