What am I doing wrong? Can't get past break

Went surfing today and it was decent form 3-4 feet, but it was comming one after the next nonstop! I have my 7"4 board trying to get past it and I just can't do it. If I paddle I have to immediately get off to jump over the wave/ turtle roll right when it curls on me. Since I have to get off my board I don't have speed to get past the white water, I try going over, letting white water go between myself and board, try just paddling as hard as I can, but I always move backward, the surf was relentless and didn't give up.
Yet I see this guy right next to me on a foamboard get past the break on his first try and doesn't bat a eye and makes it look like the easiest thing in the world. HOW DOES HE DO THAT???
Yet I see this guy right next to me on a foamboard get past the break on his first try and doesn't bat a eye and makes it look like the easiest thing in the world. HOW DOES HE DO THAT???