questions to ask at intermed lesson

My friend and I are planning a semi-private 'intermediate' longboard lesson (just the 2 of us) to try to help with our transition from whitewash to green waves in the next week or so and I wonder if anyone has any suggestions to help us make the most of it.
Some of our issues as I see them include picking the right spot, identifying the right wave and position, pop-up timing and balance. We have not yet gotten ourselves into any lineups. We spend almost all of our time on sandy beach breaks. Im not sure if it's just a little tweaking or encrouagment we need, or something more but I thought I'd ask those who have been there.
Some people have told us that 'when it clicks, it clicks!' One said he had been having all kinds of trouble with unbroken waves until one day when it suddenly all made sense. We are having some minor successes but I often feel like I'm floundering in the dark and can't see how close we might be to that 'click'
Can anyone suggest any questions to ask or tips on how to gear the lesson to get the most out of it?
Some of our issues as I see them include picking the right spot, identifying the right wave and position, pop-up timing and balance. We have not yet gotten ourselves into any lineups. We spend almost all of our time on sandy beach breaks. Im not sure if it's just a little tweaking or encrouagment we need, or something more but I thought I'd ask those who have been there.
Some people have told us that 'when it clicks, it clicks!' One said he had been having all kinds of trouble with unbroken waves until one day when it suddenly all made sense. We are having some minor successes but I often feel like I'm floundering in the dark and can't see how close we might be to that 'click'
Can anyone suggest any questions to ask or tips on how to gear the lesson to get the most out of it?