Beachbum wrote: I don't want to be an old guy in the line up who's an average Joe (no offense to anyone learning at an older age) while I'll have so many years spent on this passion that I love.
Not taking offense, I'm the old guy average Joe, 44yrs old, 200lbs. To me, average means I can do cutbacks, without missing them, can drop in double overhead every chance I can and I still paddlewar with 21year olds and win 50% of the time. Now, if you mean the old guy who no longer does airs or floaters because it usually means a longer ride since I can get around whitewash and bad sections to the shoulder with no problems that is me too.
So, as to advice, here is the only general advise I have for you: the right equipment at the right time is key. I would not have enjoyed a 6'2 shortboard when I first started, now it's my favorite shoulder to head high board, but go with slightly bigger 6'5 on bigger days for easier paddle (and because of my big arse). Many get hung up on one size too long, remember that a you get better your equipment has to keep up with you. Also, get a quiver going, you need a board for small days seperate than a board for big days to start, as you get better you will have boards for different purposes.