Surfing Waves

im really close with this girl in a just friends way and every time something as small as me being late gets me bitched at. i was supposed to take her damn dog to the park at 3, got caught up with some school stuff, got him at 5, and she called me and asked me to drive over to her work so she could see him. so i said not enouh time i want to go surfing after. then i get bitched at for "always"being late. im like wtf im already doing you a favor. after all the crap she puts me through taking care of her dog and giving her rides. WAITING in the car for her to give her rides. when im late or when i cancel plans with her i never hear the end of it. she cant remember how to pronounce my last name but she can remember me being late 4 months ago.

is it just me or am i getting the shitty side of the boyfriend role without the benefits?

you think there a reason im getting this kind of treatment, like shes mad at me for other reasons and not telling me?

Just thinking here. Your putting up with it so you must be wanting some of "that". That is the only way I would put up with that.

it hasnt always been so miserable, but you are half right.

. i was supposed to take her damn dog to the park at 3, got caught up with some school stuff, WAITING in the car for her to give her rides.
you think there a reason im getting this kind of treatment, like shes mad at me for other reasons and not telling me?[/quote]

Reading this i`d say you are a school boy pimp, and you should only pick her up when she has the money

Sell her to another pimp and get yourself a new model

and this is your girlfriend? don't worry there are more dogs in the sea, i meen bitches in the yard, or is it dogs in the yard? and bitches in the sea? pigs in the yard? hoes in the barn, oh well you know what i meen

Hawaii that's hilarious!

I'm just glad there are also cows in paradise!

I dated a girl for a year who from day one moaned, nagged, picked, shouted, argued, pained, patronised and loads of other words ending in ed.

Why did I stay with her?

Lets see if these emoticons can tell you;



and lots of

but none of


she was really dirty in bed

How dirty

lol i dont think that small writing quite covered what you tried to say

If she makes you miserable, find someone new.

every girl does it to me. every fukin time. they bitch and nag til i cant take it anymore. im starting to think theres actually something wrong with me.

my question was does that seem strange since we are just friends or are some females just like that?

A nag is a nag. I'd find someone else to hang around with. Life's to short Brah!

All that grief and your only friends!!!!!
WTF would she be like if she was your woman!

Get rid, or start getting her to do lame stuf for you,

While I'm walking your dog could you scrape all the wax off my board please? See what she says!

thanks for the advice.

"WTF would she be like if she was your woman! "

so true.

hawaiiSUCKSexceptsurf wrote:thanks for the advice.

"WTF would she be like if she was your woman! "

so true.

She would be peeling the wallpaper and I would be surfing. So since I don't have a girl/women at the moment I am peeling the wallpaper.

If she's just your friend tell her to PUT OUT OR GET OUT!!!

Don't take that crap from someone who's meant to be your mate!
Friendship works both ways. Give her an ultimatum, they always work and usually involve some sort of door slamming.



really, really, REALLY dirty

hawaiiSUCKSexceptsurf wrote:im really close with this girl in a just friends way and every time something as small as me being late gets me bitched at. i was supposed to take her damn dog to the park at 3, got caught up with some school stuff, got him at 5, and she called me and asked me to drive over to her work so she could see him. so i said not enouh time i want to go surfing after. then i get bitched at for "always"being late. im like wtf im already doing you a favor. after all the crap she puts me through taking care of her dog and giving her rides. WAITING in the car for her to give her rides. when im late or when i cancel plans with her i never hear the end of it. she cant remember how to pronounce my last name but she can remember me being late 4 months ago.

is it just me or am i getting the shitty side of the boyfriend role without the benefits?

you think there a reason im getting this kind of treatment, like shes mad at me for other reasons and not telling me?

Sounds like she thinks your her bitch or something... Just don't put up with it; she'll keep doing it more and more unless you put your foot down and tell her whats what.

Besides, women love a guy who'll stand up to them

If she is only a friend, you should be able to talk to her about things going on in your life, talk to her about a girl that you really fancy, if not one then choose a pretty hot girl. Make the b1tch jealous, or just do it to p1ss her off

MrJoe wrote:

hawaiiSUCKSexceptsurf wrote:im really close with this girl in a just friends way and every time something as small as me being late gets me bitched at. i was supposed to take her damn dog to the park at 3, got caught up with some school stuff, got him at 5, and she called me and asked me to drive over to her work so she could see him. so i said not enouh time i want to go surfing after. then i get bitched at for "always"being late. im like wtf im already doing you a favor. after all the crap she puts me through taking care of her dog and giving her rides. WAITING in the car for her to give her rides. when im late or when i cancel plans with her i never hear the end of it. she cant remember how to pronounce my last name but she can remember me being late 4 months ago.

is it just me or am i getting the shitty side of the boyfriend role without the benefits?

you think there a reason im getting this kind of treatment, like shes mad at me for other reasons and not telling me?

Sounds like she thinks your her bitch or something... Just don't put up with it; she'll keep doing it more and more unless you put your foot down and tell her whats what.

Besides, women love a guy who'll stand up to them

Joe's right, You act like a doormat you'll get treated like one. she's throwing you hoops andyou;re jumping right through them. If you want her to be more than friends then make the moves, if you don't then don't, but definitely stop being her damn servant, no matter whether you're late or not.

hawaiiSUCKSexceptsurf wrote:every girl does it to me. every fukin time. they bitch and nag til i cant take it anymore. im starting to think theres actually something wrong with me.

If your trying to get with her then your going the complete opposite way about it; no girl wants to go out with a guy who's a bigger pussy than her.

Stop supplicating to her.