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single again

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 7:31 am
by thaya
yep, back on the shelf :(

I can't believe I ever trusted that b*****d. It turns out everything he's ever said over the last few weeks have been lies and he's only had one thing on his mind. I told him where to go.

I'm through with dating. I'm through with men. Going to enjoy being single... free as a bird. Men are more hassle than they're worth.

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:25 am
by libby
Awwwwwww i'm sorry to hear that. :cry:

I sort of met someone on friday night but not sure he is interested and also not sure i'm ready for anything, but we'll see...we have EVERYTHING in common. And he surfs.

He got my number off a friend on saturday so that we could meet up for a surf, so hopefully another surf buddy (and piece of eye candy) at the least :D

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:59 am
by Adrenaline Fueled
Aww, sorry to hear that Thaya. Men are all fleshin barstands, trust me. Enjoy the single life to the full! I personally love being single, 'specially when some of my mates say they can't come surfing cos they have to spend time with the missus...
Anyway, take care Thaya, don't let it get you down 8)

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 9:07 am
by sal
Noooooooooooooo! Poor you Thaya, what a git! xxx

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 12:09 pm
by essex sucks
not again sorry to hear it, devon soon lol that will cheer u up :D

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 12:22 pm
by Dr Rev
Sorry to hear that Thaya, enjoy being single for a while, less hassel !

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 2:26 pm
by PapaW
Every low tide if followed by a high... remeber that :)

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 2:28 pm
by Stone Fox
Damn girl. You do pick 'em don't you? Enjoy being single though, it's a lot easier.

Hope it didn't hurt too much... :(

*edit*

Thought you might need this.

Image

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 2:54 pm
by pault
Chin up Thaya it just wasn't meant to be. Sending hugs.

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 3:36 pm
by thaya
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks guys n gals! big hug greatly appreciated!

he called me a few mins ago and said he was soooooooooooooooo sorry that he'd messed things up. the sad thing is I still have some feelings for him.. I'm insane. i don't want to be treated badly and he's said if i don't wanna see him again then that's ok, but he wants another chance. Am i being harsh by telling him where to go? I'm having doubts now. I was so certain he was a total BLEEP and I didn't want anything to do with him, but as soon as he puts on a sweet voice I'm doubting myself.

Men eh. :roll:

having said all that and promising I'd had enough of men, I phoned a guy I've fancied for years (but never had the guts to tell him and still haven't but am thinking about it) and we've arranged to meet over half term - the worst thing is, he suggested 13th&14th (valentines day) and now I'm all confused. Excited but scared. maybe he didn't realise that it was valentines day and just wants to meet and say hi and hang out.

To sum up... I'm a complete mess!

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 3:38 pm
by CheeZee
:wink: ... enjoy the time as sucky as it seems now , a few months down the line you'll be in ere' ranting about how the new fella leaves his pants in the microwave to dry, toe nail clippings in the ashtrays and copies of Gimping Bi-monthly stashed in your " ladies things " draw etc etc etc :wink: :P

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 3:43 pm
by thaya
:lol: :lol: :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 4:31 pm
by sal
thaya wrote: maybe he didn't realise that it was valentines day


:shock:

Like my ex 'forgot' about Christmas 2 years in a row...it's not like it's the SAME day every year, or the shops and TV are full of adverts or anything! Men! :twisted:

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 4:33 pm
by Dr Rev
My wife changed the pin number on my credit card to our wedding anniversary, i WILL never forget that !!!

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 4:35 pm
by sal
S Boy wrote:My wife changed the pin number on my credit card to our wedding anniversary, i WILL never forget that !!!


Oh i like her thinking, cunning! :lol: :lol: :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 4:37 pm
by Dr Rev
Devious i thought !!! :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 5:45 pm
by Stone Fox
That IS good.

If I ever get into another serious relationship, must change my pin to her birthday...

That's a GOOD trick.

Thaya, it might be worth 'accidentally' telling him that it's valentines that weekend.

Something along the lines of,

"Aren't you doing anything already?"

Which should give you more information, especially if you ask face to face and watch his eyes.

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 9:26 pm
by dougirwin13
Commiserations.

All blokes aren't losers, tho.

But the gems only seem to turn up when you really do stop looking.

Maybe just go with friendships and see where things go form there.

Naturally the occasional hot lesbian one night stand is fine, as long as you post all the gory details on here. [/humor]

-doug

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 10:08 pm
by Stone Fox
dougirwin13 wrote:Naturally the occasional hot lesbian one night stand is fine, as long as you post all the gory details on here. [/humor]

-doug


And pictures, DON'T forget the pictures!

(Full motion video with a high definition cam will do) :D

PostPosted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 8:20 am
by thaya
Stone Fox wrote:
And pictures, DON'T forget the pictures!

(Full motion video with a high definition cam will do) :D


Will do ! :wink: :lol: