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I hate my gambling addiction

Postby PiersTurner » Wed Sep 09, 2020 10:36 am

It's driving me crazy because I lose most of my money, but I can't stand it. It's stronger than me
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Re: I hate my gambling addiction

Postby jaffa1949 » Wed Sep 09, 2020 11:58 am

Piers nothing we can offer on the forum would help , you are better seeking professional help!
Any addiction is a danger to you, your family and friends!
Seek counseling and advice to change things.
Then take those steps , gamblers anonymous or other support groups beyond the professional advice!
Stay safe stay well and do it!
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Re: I hate my gambling addiction

Postby oldmansurfer » Wed Sep 09, 2020 4:58 pm

I saw great harm from gambling in my friends when I was young before I could get addicted. That made me avoid gambling even though I was good enough at blackjack to win much more than I lost (billiards also ). Good luck with overcoming your addiction. Hope you don't loose everything important to you.
So what is worse.... dying or regretting it for the rest of my life? Obviously I chose not regretting it.
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Re: I hate my gambling addiction

Postby OlegLupusov » Wed Sep 09, 2020 10:26 pm

We are all suffering from surfing addiction. So, it’s not the best place to talk about addictions;)
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Re: I hate my gambling addiction

Postby PreyGirl » Thu Sep 24, 2020 3:58 pm

PiersTurner wrote:It's driving me crazy because I lose most of my money, but I can't stand it. It's stronger than me

I agree 1000000%. Lost a lot of myself. I told myself never again. Why risk money on gambling. The outcome is unpredictable so it's a waste and why dump money into something where the odds are against you. I agree with everything you said. its just motivation to stay away from gambling.
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Re: I hate my gambling addiction

Postby jaffa1949 » Sat Oct 10, 2020 9:28 am

AN ABSOLUTE WARNING One of our Forum members has mentioned that he has issues with gambling.
DO NOT come on and offer other gambling schemes online or off, they are of no help to our friend.
YOU WILL BE BANNED PERMANENTLY AND IMMEDIATELY!

THIS IS A SURFING FORUM FOR SURFERS AND THEIR NEEDS!
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Re: I hate my gambling addiction

Postby IB_Surfer » Fri Oct 23, 2020 1:51 pm

Every time you feel like gambling grab a surfboard? You might end up board hoarding like me but...

Good luck mate, hope you see through it.
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Re: I hate my gambling addiction

Postby jaffa1949 » Tue Nov 10, 2020 2:48 pm

This thread is being locked as most posters are advertising online gambling games. :x
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The Problem of Addiction and Its Solutions

Postby davesapher » Tue Nov 17, 2020 9:39 am

No matter how fun you find gambling, this activity can be addictive. Some people get obsessed with it due to financial issues, while others have inner problems and inclination to the addition of any kind. Anyway, as soon as casinos overshadow more important things in life, it’s time to reconsider your priorities.
I have researched this topic and can share some information about addiction reasons, signs and solutions.

Why People Get Addicted to Gambling?

Numerous factors can stimulate addiction. In most cases, there is a set of reasons that lead to a growing obsession with casino games and an urge to win. Sometimes the outside factors provoke excessive playing, but mostly the internal factors are the reason in the first place. Anyway, I discovered some aspects that in one way or another can influence a person’s gambling issues.

    Psychological factors.
    Desire to showcase the leadership and dominance above other gamblers;
    Urgent need of a feeling of satisfaction when life is full of problems and disappointments;
    Low self-esteem;
    Depression and similar states;
    Childhood issues and fears.
    Economic factors.
    Inability to reach financial independence and stability in traditional ways;
    Getting fired of downsizing due to economic crisis;
    Desire to get money fast and effortlessly.
    Other factors.
    Pandemic and lockdown issues;
    Legal status and availability of gambling facilities;
    Constant advertising of casinos and betting in mass media.

What Consequences of Gambling Addiction Player May Face?

Financial problems and debts.
Loss of contact with friends and family members, divorce.
Health problems.
Mental instability.
Thoughts of committing crimes or suicide.

How to Check Your Condition?

Here’s a list of addiction signs. If you have checked at least 3-5 points, this means you probably have problems with gambling.

You cannot control your gambling desires;
You have insomnia and other sleep disorders;
Your health is getting worse due to constant stress;
When you can’t play, you feel anxious and irritated;
You feel depressed when no gambling;
You become more and more obsessed with gambling;
You cannot control your emotions while playing;
You prefer gambling even when you do not feel well mentally or physically;
Financial problems and debts do not stop you from depositing more and more;
You consider criminal ways of getting more money to keep gamble;
You cannot stop gambling even due to the constant feeling of regrets and pangs of remorse;
You are obsessed with the goal to win;
You get back to gambling even after trying to quit.

How to Treat Addiction?

Getting back to normal life requires a comprehensive approach and constant fight with your inner demons. However, following these five steps can help you get on the right track:

Research your condition. Find out what are the leading causes of your addiction and temptation.
Apply for therapy of your gambling addiction. Find professional medical and psychological help.
Find support. Cooperate with other gamblers who want to quit or join the existing support communities.
Solve your financial problems. Find help and financial advice in the national and charity organisations.
Stop gambling. Add yourself to the gambling self-exclusion scheme in your country, or any other territory you can get access to the online casinos.

You can find more information for help for people who suffer from gambling addiction.

WHAT YOU SAY IS VALUABLE BUT THE LINK LEADS TO A HELP PAGE WITH MANY CASINO LINKS NOT REALLY HELPFUL TO A GAMBLING ADDICT with those links
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