Surfing Waves

Would it bother you?

I think my mate Rob could be gay, he looks at me funny when I get my wettie on, and keeps paddling up behind me when I'm duck diving.

Spending time alone together on out of the way beaches, sharing a tent, stuff like that could become quite difficult. I'm not sure if I should say something to him.

He's not the best looking bloke (bit overweight and hairy), has a few personal hygeine issues, and I'm not into that sort of stuff anyway.

What should I do?

Mate - you lost it the second you mentioned duck diving!!!

He's not the best looking bloke (bit overweight and hairy), has a few personal hygeine issues, and I'm not into that sort of stuff anyway.

Um what the flesh has that got to do with anything. No man looks good

If it makes you uncomfortable then distance yourself. I have a mate who rather Camp and possibly gay but he dont make me uncomfortable if he did i wouldnt hang around.

I didnt know he fancied me TBH, as a warm blooded married straight bloke I didnt know what signs to look for, last time I let him pick me up and take me to secluded beaches!

Hang11 wrote:He's not the best looking bloke (bit overweight and hairy), has a few personal hygeine issues

Hey, he cant be gay - every gay guy I know is impeccably well trimmed and spends a great deal of time on personal hygiene

Hmm Hang11 seems to spend an awflul long time in front of mirrors.

Admitedly straped into his snowboarding gear but he's possibly kinky like that, he sleeps with it too...

drowningbitbybit wrote:

Hang11 wrote:He's not the best looking bloke (bit overweight and hairy), has a few personal hygeine issues

Hey, he cant be gay - every gay guy I know is impeccably well trimmed and spends a great deal of time on personal hygiene

Good point. He has long hair, maybe he's actually a lesbian?

RJD wrote:I didnt know he fancied me TBH, as a warm blooded married straight bloke I didnt know what signs to look for, last time I let him pick me up and take me to secluded beaches!

Rob!!

Good to hear from you mate. Fancy a surfing-waves new zealand first ever mini meet up at the speights pub after work?

I'll stand with my arse against the bar.

Now he's asking me out on a date!?!?!!?

Wouldnt mind a pint or two, nothing like last Friday tho - gotta early morning bike ride booked...

I had a good laugh at this thread... thank you hahah.

I think my "friend" might be gay! Your not trying to tell us something are you hang11?

KS

kitesurfer wrote:I think my "friend" might be gay! Your not trying to tell us something are you hang11?

KS

Yeah, I am, not too subliminal, basically that RJD should consider moving to Sydney.

Sounds like a case of Broke Back Surfers

justloafing wrote:Sounds like a case of Broke Back Surfers

lmao

haha

Arghh i can't find the thread.. but there was a guy on here a while back who was asking to meet up with any gay surfers!!

flyingvee wrote:

justloafing wrote:Sounds like a case of Broke Back Surfers

lmao

If hes gay, hes gay. As long as he doesn't actually hit on you then no biggy.

The way I look at gay guys is.. I think of them as a girl I'm not attracted to.. if they start hitting on me I tell them sorry but no thanks not my thing.. and if they continue it then I stop hanging out.

But just cause hes gay doesn't mean hes gonna be some "gay hormone monster" thats gonna jump all over you.. haha.

If he makes you uncomfortable tell him.. if you think he might be gay maybe you should ask him? And if he is.. maybe give him a kiss so he doesn't feel so lonely

greg@hoodatsurfco wrote:The way I look at gay guys is..

I try not to just in case they get the wrong idea.....

KS

greg@hoodatsurfco wrote:I think of them as a girl I'm not attracted to..

Which can be quite dangerous after a few beers.....