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Postby essex sucks » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:10 pm

not just one bad thing has happed too me in the last week but 7 and still seem too be coming


sorry pointless rant over
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Postby isaluteyou » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:31 pm

Boy doesnt that just ring true :( Particually in the lady department Dang :x
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Postby essex sucks » Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:49 pm

isaluteyou wrote:Boy doesnt that just ring true :( Particually in the lady department Dang :x


yep thats one of the 7 mate
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Postby BoarderDave » Mon Feb 18, 2008 8:11 pm

When it rains it pours.. man, just keep your spirits up. You'll make it through. :)

Here's hoping things look up for you. :D
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Postby Luke » Mon Feb 18, 2008 8:17 pm

When I'm feeling really low...i watch this...it never fails to cheer me up.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cLresN6yZEY

Chin up dude :D.
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Postby essex sucks » Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:22 pm

cheers guys lets hope things get abit better this week lol


o nice vid luke just gave it ago too, its hard
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Postby Otter » Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:32 am

Hope you get some good rides soon, always brings me out of the blues, regardless of what got me there!
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Postby thaya » Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:35 am

hope things start to improve soon :)

I can't say I know how you feel, cuz I don't know all 7 things that have happened, but what I can say is things seem to go wrong for me on a regular basis, as you know, :wink: and when I feel down about stuff I just tell myself that things could be worse and then I feel grateful for what I have 8)

In terms of that first thing I know it's tough and the world can be a cruel place sometimes, but it will become easier in time.

it's not long till the mini-meet in april either... that'll be fun :D
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Postby Johno » Tue Feb 19, 2008 8:45 am

Woman woman woman am in the same boat am starting to fink am never guning to find a gud one seems alot of us dudes are in the same boat,

the only time i dont think about them is when am surfing

keep ya chin up matey keep surfing
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Postby libby » Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:56 pm

*big hug* have yourself a large bar of chocolate, a pint and a whinge to your best mates followed by a surf or a run or something outdoorsy and fun :D
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Postby essex sucks » Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:13 pm

i have had a good day today at last but got funral too go too on thus that i am not looking forward too at all

i do need a surf not been since 30th of dec wish some swell would come down this way

wow look at me nomal post that makes sence for a change
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Postby BoarderDave » Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:28 pm

Yeah.. definitely hoping some swell comes your way. After couple months, Im usually itching to be away from all the problems and in the ocean too. Good luck man. Hope things get better for you.
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Postby southwestsurfer » Tue Feb 19, 2008 9:40 pm

Great video mate..cheered me up
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Postby Dr Rev » Wed Feb 20, 2008 10:34 am

Give me a call if you fancy going for a beer Essex,?

Take it easy mate !
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Postby perusurf » Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:14 pm

i don't know if this would be of anyhelp at all, but what i do is really not let things bother me, if something happens to me, and i've had so many things happen to me, i just continue with my life as if nothing had happened, go out, see friends, specially surfing, always with good vibes around, go back home late, just to sleep. i think sometimes when you're alone is when it hits you worse. some people get depressed specailly when they're by themselves. anyway, good to hear that things are going better.
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Postby BoarderDave » Wed Feb 20, 2008 3:32 pm

^^ Definitely. I get the same thing.. bad crap happens, I feel like just crashing on my couch and playing video games until I cant feel my hands anymore, but when I make myself get out and hang with people.. it usually makes me MUCH more happy about life.

..That, or I'll take a weekend and drive up to central coast CA to visit my family and old high school friends and catch some cold ass surf.. :? Usually cheers me up some too. :D
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Postby Phil » Wed Feb 20, 2008 3:50 pm

mate i feel for you, not having a stella time of things right now as well, have fleshin' up my second year at uni and going to have to repeat it, am stuck in a relationship i dont want to be in but finding it hard to walk away becuse her dads just had a stroke so shes upset about that and me ending things now would just be wrong and to top it all fallen out with alot of people becuse they felt the need to interfear with things between me and my ex.

the only thing keeping me sain right now is getting in the water for a surf
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Postby essex sucks » Wed Feb 20, 2008 5:02 pm

bad day again today but hay could have been wose hope too go for a surf this sat if i am reading things right that is

cheers for all the kind words guys
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Postby joem » Wed Feb 20, 2008 8:55 pm

one thing that always helps me is to get and adrenaline rush of some sort kinda helps put things in prespective
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Postby Johno » Wed Feb 20, 2008 9:11 pm

joem wrote:one thing that always helps me is to get and adrenaline rush of some sort kinda helps put things in prespective


here here geting the hart pumping is a clinical cure for depresion / strees. read some were dr are going to start prscibing people to go the gym

exersise makes me feel better any way
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