Ok serious question for the guys...and the girls

[Ellie]

Personally, I would say 'good on ya!'. £300/hour is darn good (I cook at a greasy spoon for £6.20) - and you are totally right - if it feels fine, or even bareable, do it for a month, get yourself clear of debt and then just do whatever you want to do.

Take care of yourself, none the less.

[Milo]

Go for it girl, you could try it for a month and if you don`t like it take the money and run.
Never been to a lap dancing club, would be very embarasing as i stand to attention on command.

[buckthis]

make more, spend more, have fun!

[waytogofranko]

ok you are in a financial 'situation'. understood.

you have to ask yourself though, are YOU okay with this? will you regret it later in life? and are you okay keeping it to yourself/or everyone knowing you are a stripper?

honestly i would never date a stipper. a woman who exploits herself in such a way is really unattractive. why date a woman whose body could be seen by anyone else for some change. no thanks.

but hey, there are people who don't care about that type of thing.

its your life

[jennie]

Ok on some levels i do agree with you...im not totally 100% ok with it, however sometimes the circumstances you find yourself in leave you with very little choice. Its not pleasant and its not nice but in the long run it has allowed me to persue a medical career, which in my opinion is truely worth it.

Im not stupid by any means and am well aware of what i was doing and the repercussions. .


The reason i posted the thread was to see what people thought so thank you for your opinion. You are completely entitled to it.



By the way i do care...a great deal.

[Luke]

honestly i would never date a stipper. a woman who exploits herself in such a way is really unattractive. why date a woman whose body could be seen by anyone else for some change. no thanks.

I think this would depend totally on the type of stripping it was, and why the womean was doing it. For some women it can be quite empowering. ....surely the blokes are the ones really being exploited??

I really wouldn't mind going out with someone who was doing it for the right reasons. The fact that other people get to see them naked wouldn't change the special relationship you'd have with them.

[tomato3000]

I would just say that you need to remember some things.

History is pretty hard to get rid of and background checks etc; are always getting more popular and finding more due to internet etc.

I think it's completely fine to do something you don't 100% agree with if it is helping you achieve some sort of goal. However I think it's very important to define your goal, because otherwise you may never reach it.

So my advice would be define your goal. Eg; put all the money into 1 account and don't touch it. Once it reaches x amount stop. Or only do it for x months.

I know if I had some way to make money (that I didn't 100% agree with) there is a chance after doing it for a couple of months I get complacent and that extra money would just become 'my income' and then I'd have to keep doing it to keep the lifestyle up.

[pat42]

honestly i would never date a stipper. a woman who exploits herself in such a way is really unattractive. why date a woman whose body could be seen by anyone else for some change. no thanks.

I went out with 3 girls in a row who happened to work in "Gentlemen's Clubs' (Not through visiting the clubs I might add)

What makes you think they are different to any other girl???

Just because they do a job you dont approve of doesnt make them less of a person than someone who works on the till at Tescos

And you get to see them every day in their kinky gear, which is always a bonus

[buckthis]

waytogofranko, the doctor saw your wife naked and stuck his fingers in her private area and you worried that someone would see her naked?

[CheeZee]

time for a CheeZee drop-in !

.. the most trustworthy woman i ever had the pleasure to spend time with was an escort for a short while (call it what you will!) .. in my time i have come across many dishonest women that use sex and sexuality as a weapon...spending time with someone who openly uses her sexuality in an honest and upfront manner i.e " a job " ..can , not for all , but can enhance trust levels between two people.

There is nothing to hide, no games can be played, no reactionary flirting which leads to jealousy issues ...the list goes on peeps and it really only applies to a certain character type for male and female for the above to be the case, so if you find that' sort of woman or man unattractive, or off-putting then i would say that that is more to do with your character and your perceived stereotyping of such a person, than it could ever be to do with what that person does.

Im not saying you are wrong to find objection with someones character, work or straight up hedonistic love of using their sexuality ..just keep an open mind when considering what that persons character may hold in personal levels of trust, love and loyalty.

Film to see : .. 'True Romance'

book to read : .. 'The Bible' .. ever wondered why Jesus's closest friend and emotional confidant was a hooker called Mary ?! ... possibly because she was the most trustworthy soul he had in his life ?? (and no i am not a God botherer! ..i just like some of the stories in that book)

" trust, sex and distrust " ...from there all of mans greatest achievments and failures have been formed..since the dawning of time lololol

[rich r]

I lived with 3 strippers and 2 girls that were bartenders at the club. Some had their issues, some were put together. But I wouldn't say that was a function of what they did, but how they grew up.

If they had their s h i t together going in, they still had it. If they didn't before, they behaved just as they probably would not stripping and living in a trailer park pregnant with 3 kids running around their feet. Just that they all had their own homes and sent their kids to school. (I had a house on the beach they stayed with me at off and on when they wanted to get away).

If you know what you're getting into and know you can handle yourself to not get involved in a downward spiral, then why not? The cash is good, you're young and all you need to think up is the right exit plan.

[CheeZee]

.. good post rich

[keef]

Just go for it.

My Fiancee would love to have an offer like that, and at the mo is lying in a hospital bed wondering if she has a terminal illness.

If you can earn good money, and not compromise yourself in any other way, and not put yourself in harms way, and you have a talent for it, then you'd be a fool not to.

If you don't, you will always regret it.