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Postby Phil » Sat May 21, 2005 11:44 pm

well if you have and thats your attitude then you really are a cold hearted xxxxx i'm sorry but anyone thats been through lossing a friend to suicide normaly has alot more understanding there can be allsorts of reasons, most of the time its becuse they canot find away out of the situation there in, or its becuse of mental health problems, i had a friend drive into a wall and killed himself a few years back, it really shock me up, you beat your self up becuse you didnt realsise there was a problem, that there must have been some thing you could have done to help them

maybe you should think before posting in future
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Postby gulfsurfer » Sun May 22, 2005 2:24 am

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Postby meister » Sun May 22, 2005 6:12 am

thanks brent

and gulfsurfer, i would have expected a more understanding perspective from someone who has lost friends to suicide. "Its so retarded how many little pansies we have in this world today." did you actually realise that you're talking about your own mates? As brent said, theres far more to it than "ohh my life is gay everyone hates me i'll just end my life" ... seriously, grow up.
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Postby meister » Sun May 22, 2005 6:13 am

Phil wrote:well if you have and thats your attitude then you really are a cold hearted xxxxx i'm sorry but anyone thats been through lossing a friend to suicide normaly has alot more understanding there can be allsorts of reasons, most of the time its becuse they canot find away out of the situation there in, or its becuse of mental health problems, i had a friend drive into a wall and killed himself a few years back, it really shock me up, you beat your self up becuse you didnt realsise there was a problem, that there must have been some thing you could have done to help them

maybe you should think before posting in future


youre on2 it.
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Postby gulfsurfer » Sun May 22, 2005 2:16 pm

meister wrote:thanks brent

and gulfsurfer, i would have expected a more understanding perspective from someone who has lost friends to suicide. "Its so retarded how many little pansies we have in this world today." did you actually realise that you're talking about your own mates? As brent said, theres far more to it than "ohh my life is gay everyone hates me i'll just end my life" ... seriously, grow up.


I'm going to delete everything i said. I was being an asshole. Sorry everyone.
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Postby Guest » Mon May 23, 2005 9:32 am

no guys that stottally true about beng 'chicken xxxxx' but not the best way to put it, most peole comnit suicide because thy are scared of something, my friend comit suicide as he was to scared to go to court, he was only being done for dangerous driving, he basically couldnt face being up infront of everyone in a court, i really dont blame him, i think i would think about sucide to if i was in his shoes. best thing to do if someone is in a bad situation is to give them as much support and reasurace as poosible
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Postby CheeZee » Mon May 23, 2005 9:54 am

I think this subject should be pulled ' :)
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Postby Brent » Tue May 24, 2005 9:23 am

likewise agree.
it can only go downhill from here...
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Postby surf patrol » Tue May 24, 2005 11:51 pm

On that note we'll call time on this topic.
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