Butt-boarders vs. stand-up surfers

I'm a butt-boarder, and have been since I was 43; I'm 64 now.
My board is a Wavermaster Strata, and I love it. I've often heard
from my stand-up friends how they hate surfing with us butt-boarders.
We don't know the rules of wave courtesy, and we're always hogging
waves. I'm on vacation in Costa Rica, Playa Tamarindo, and today I
had a conflict with a stand-up surfer. We were surfing the reef just
off the beach, where it makes sort of a point break. The drop-in
area is small, only 20 feet wide or less, so it doesn't take many
surfers for it to get overcrowded. There were two guys in front of
me in the line-up. They'd passed over several waves I'd have taken
in their position, and were talking to each other when another nice
wave started building. I thought they were going to pass again, so I
started paddling, looking over my right shoulder to time the drop-in.
I'd just made the wave and turned to face forward when a guy on a
surfboard zipped right across the wave in front of my board. The wave
was breaking on my stern by then, and I couldn't pull out. I tipped
to try to slow myself, but the wave had a grip, and I ran into him.
We both came up spluttering with him shouting that I'd nearly broken
his foot.
Was I at fault? Absolutely! He was on the inside of me on the shoulder
of the wave, and although I didn't see it he must've stopped jabbering
and got on the wave before me, after I'd turned to set up. By the
rules it was his wave. But he was behind me, and could clearly see
me setting up for the wave, and I had no idea he was there until he
crossed in front of me. In my opinion, his insisting on his rights was
a bit like the skipper of a run-about colliding with an ocean liner
that was on his port side on an intersecting course. According to
COLREGS, the run-about has the right-of-way, but any skipper with good
sense would give way in these circumstances. If I'd known he'd already
dropped in, I would've done everything I could to give him the wave.
It's situations like this that cause me to tell my stand-up surfer
friends who hate to surf with butt-boarders that this butt-boarder
often feels the same way.
My board is a Wavermaster Strata, and I love it. I've often heard
from my stand-up friends how they hate surfing with us butt-boarders.
We don't know the rules of wave courtesy, and we're always hogging
waves. I'm on vacation in Costa Rica, Playa Tamarindo, and today I
had a conflict with a stand-up surfer. We were surfing the reef just
off the beach, where it makes sort of a point break. The drop-in
area is small, only 20 feet wide or less, so it doesn't take many
surfers for it to get overcrowded. There were two guys in front of
me in the line-up. They'd passed over several waves I'd have taken
in their position, and were talking to each other when another nice
wave started building. I thought they were going to pass again, so I
started paddling, looking over my right shoulder to time the drop-in.
I'd just made the wave and turned to face forward when a guy on a
surfboard zipped right across the wave in front of my board. The wave
was breaking on my stern by then, and I couldn't pull out. I tipped
to try to slow myself, but the wave had a grip, and I ran into him.
We both came up spluttering with him shouting that I'd nearly broken
his foot.
Was I at fault? Absolutely! He was on the inside of me on the shoulder
of the wave, and although I didn't see it he must've stopped jabbering
and got on the wave before me, after I'd turned to set up. By the
rules it was his wave. But he was behind me, and could clearly see
me setting up for the wave, and I had no idea he was there until he
crossed in front of me. In my opinion, his insisting on his rights was
a bit like the skipper of a run-about colliding with an ocean liner
that was on his port side on an intersecting course. According to
COLREGS, the run-about has the right-of-way, but any skipper with good
sense would give way in these circumstances. If I'd known he'd already
dropped in, I would've done everything I could to give him the wave.
It's situations like this that cause me to tell my stand-up surfer
friends who hate to surf with butt-boarders that this butt-boarder
often feels the same way.