Too much to bite off....

When was the last time you went to surf and stayed on the beach rather than go out and for what reasons?
Today I went to a beachie in seminyak, usually a relatively mellowish break on the fat side with a sand bar about 150m out...no reef or rocks (rare for here)...a few different peaks, almost never crowded, great for developing and where I go now when it looks like a bigger day in that getting smashed isn't that big a deal....
I stayed on the beach today....2.6m swell, 19 sec period.... Report said 6-10 ft faces but there were clean up sets that were ragged and just plain rough looking that looked a tad bigger and a lot more disorganized than the rest...and the beach break on the inside swallowed up the usual channel and was a hollow bear...a fellow surfer surveying the scene next to me made a funny comment that stuck..."that's just terrible!" Hahaha...shame if it was it was walling up pretty nice....looked like it would be a good time if:
1. I had better skills
2. I didn't have to go have what would be a busy day at work
3. I didn't have a family that I could potentially leave without a head
I really take safety seriously...I'm not shy to call it off if I think that there is a chance my abilities are exceeded by my appetite....plus I surf alone and as this was daybreak there was only this other guy who was on vacation who attempted to cajole me out got flatly told after my book cover appraisal "that's too much....it's just not safe for me..I'd think twice if I were you. "
Charging is all well and good, and maybe my cautious approach is slowing my development. But then again, I'm still here....people do go missing here and big swells always seem to claim someone. I try to respect the ocean and leave a margin for error; if I made a mistake today the margins just weren't there per my abilities. Dislocate a shoulder on a wipeout and I'd be in a serious situation.
So anyway, it was a pretty easy choice today, made more marginal calls before...why did you choose not to go out and what were you faced with / reasons for calling it off?
Today I went to a beachie in seminyak, usually a relatively mellowish break on the fat side with a sand bar about 150m out...no reef or rocks (rare for here)...a few different peaks, almost never crowded, great for developing and where I go now when it looks like a bigger day in that getting smashed isn't that big a deal....
I stayed on the beach today....2.6m swell, 19 sec period.... Report said 6-10 ft faces but there were clean up sets that were ragged and just plain rough looking that looked a tad bigger and a lot more disorganized than the rest...and the beach break on the inside swallowed up the usual channel and was a hollow bear...a fellow surfer surveying the scene next to me made a funny comment that stuck..."that's just terrible!" Hahaha...shame if it was it was walling up pretty nice....looked like it would be a good time if:
1. I had better skills
2. I didn't have to go have what would be a busy day at work
3. I didn't have a family that I could potentially leave without a head
I really take safety seriously...I'm not shy to call it off if I think that there is a chance my abilities are exceeded by my appetite....plus I surf alone and as this was daybreak there was only this other guy who was on vacation who attempted to cajole me out got flatly told after my book cover appraisal "that's too much....it's just not safe for me..I'd think twice if I were you. "
Charging is all well and good, and maybe my cautious approach is slowing my development. But then again, I'm still here....people do go missing here and big swells always seem to claim someone. I try to respect the ocean and leave a margin for error; if I made a mistake today the margins just weren't there per my abilities. Dislocate a shoulder on a wipeout and I'd be in a serious situation.
So anyway, it was a pretty easy choice today, made more marginal calls before...why did you choose not to go out and what were you faced with / reasons for calling it off?