heya. i learned to surf with my gf this past summer and we have been surfing at san onofre and mission beach. i would def recommend san onofre for learning. (more specifically the south part of the beach by the volleyball courts)
the people at san-o are the nicest people ive ever met and they really encourage everyone to learn and have a great time. just remember to wear your booties unless you want to risk it like i did and tear out a chunk of your foot by unluckily stepping on a sharp rock. hence, my name.
i havent tried doheney yet but my friends and i always eat breakfast near there after a catching some morning waves at san-o. let me know how it is if you go.