Missing waves frustration

Hi folks,
Hope you are all well. I've just got back from three days of surfing down on the Cornish coast here in the UK. The first two days were awesome and I scored plenty of waves on my new 9'6. However, the third day was frustrating. I was surfing just after high tide on a far corner of a pretty popular beach break. For the life of me I couldn't catch any waves for over an hour. I was joined in my far corner by a young female surfer, also on a 9'6 by the looks of it, who proceeded to score wave after wave. I reckon she caught 10 waves for every one I caught. I tried to analyse why I was making a complete hash of things. It wasn't my position, I made sure I paddled out to the same position on the peak as the other wave catching machine surfer. It made no difference. I would paddle hard on the set waves but they just passed me by. I noticed the other surfer appeared not to paddler hard but she nailed it and caught the set wave every single time. She made it look so effortless. Maybe it's an age and weight thing? I'm 52 and weigh 84kg. She was probably early 20s and petite. She could also have been a competitive longboarder for all I know. However, I did find it very frustrating and a bit soul destroying, especially after the previous days of catching loads of waves. Do these kind of frustrating sessions happen to anyone else? Maybe it was a lack of knowledge in surfing high tide conditions at this particular beach (the previous two good days of surfing happened at another break)? How can I improve things in these situations? Your thoughts would be appreciated. Many thanks for reading.
Hope you are all well. I've just got back from three days of surfing down on the Cornish coast here in the UK. The first two days were awesome and I scored plenty of waves on my new 9'6. However, the third day was frustrating. I was surfing just after high tide on a far corner of a pretty popular beach break. For the life of me I couldn't catch any waves for over an hour. I was joined in my far corner by a young female surfer, also on a 9'6 by the looks of it, who proceeded to score wave after wave. I reckon she caught 10 waves for every one I caught. I tried to analyse why I was making a complete hash of things. It wasn't my position, I made sure I paddled out to the same position on the peak as the other wave catching machine surfer. It made no difference. I would paddle hard on the set waves but they just passed me by. I noticed the other surfer appeared not to paddler hard but she nailed it and caught the set wave every single time. She made it look so effortless. Maybe it's an age and weight thing? I'm 52 and weigh 84kg. She was probably early 20s and petite. She could also have been a competitive longboarder for all I know. However, I did find it very frustrating and a bit soul destroying, especially after the previous days of catching loads of waves. Do these kind of frustrating sessions happen to anyone else? Maybe it was a lack of knowledge in surfing high tide conditions at this particular beach (the previous two good days of surfing happened at another break)? How can I improve things in these situations? Your thoughts would be appreciated. Many thanks for reading.