Pop Up / Paddle timing

Hello glad to be part of the forum. I have just started back surfing. The last time I was in my late teens and now 53 (part of trying to stay young).
I have read a ton on my question, searched google, this group,and watched about 20 thousand you tube videos (surf simply also)
I am surfing mainly a 9,6 Ricky Carrol Retro 2 in small 2 to 4 ft east coast waves.
My question is around pop up and pearling. I am working on paddle speed, keeping the nose low and my weight balanced. My pearl problem could still be due to poor execution of those. However I wonder if I am waiting too late to pop up. I am really waiting until I really feel the wave push me but by that time I wonder if I have waited too long. I often pearl around this time.
So should I really feel the wave pushing me (well gravity pulling me) and then stand up or I am I paddling hard as I can to get as close to wave speed as possible and as I feel the best board lift try to pop up and that gets me down the wave ?
When I watch it looks more like paddle hard and standing is getting you into the wave not so much paddle and waiting. I feel like I am on the peak in the right place. But I keep thinking from a logical point of view that as you wait and the wave curve increases you are on a fairly flat long surface in a curve so the nose or tail has to go somewhere.
I know it could be other things like wave selection or where I am. Last session I started bending my legs up and caught more waves.
Thanks!
I have read a ton on my question, searched google, this group,and watched about 20 thousand you tube videos (surf simply also)
I am surfing mainly a 9,6 Ricky Carrol Retro 2 in small 2 to 4 ft east coast waves.
My question is around pop up and pearling. I am working on paddle speed, keeping the nose low and my weight balanced. My pearl problem could still be due to poor execution of those. However I wonder if I am waiting too late to pop up. I am really waiting until I really feel the wave push me but by that time I wonder if I have waited too long. I often pearl around this time.
So should I really feel the wave pushing me (well gravity pulling me) and then stand up or I am I paddling hard as I can to get as close to wave speed as possible and as I feel the best board lift try to pop up and that gets me down the wave ?
When I watch it looks more like paddle hard and standing is getting you into the wave not so much paddle and waiting. I feel like I am on the peak in the right place. But I keep thinking from a logical point of view that as you wait and the wave curve increases you are on a fairly flat long surface in a curve so the nose or tail has to go somewhere.
I know it could be other things like wave selection or where I am. Last session I started bending my legs up and caught more waves.
Thanks!